I know that love doesn't mean you think a person is perfect.
All of the good ones are taken, and the only ones left are handicapped or too far away. Could be a different Jesus? Sadly for them, "Not a homewrecker" is a mantra of mine. All other guys: A lot of folks have kids already, so you need to come to terms with that. I literally never went out with or considered going out with a man with children because there were scores of men who didn't have any. Divorced women are not all damaged, a lot of them have their shit sorted by now, and are more together.